Hey there. While running errands the other day, my kids convinced me to buy this quirky word game. It involved minimal setup, wasn’t so competitive that it devolved into a sibling argument (been there), and, most importantly, kept all three of us engaged as we waited for our sandwiches. That got me thinking about all things play — the theme of this issue — including:
What I won’t be letting my kids do on our next hike
These nostalgic activities for the next time they say, “I'm bored”
If “all-day playdates” are the answer to…everything?
Or if this parenting influencer is right about how we shouldn’t play pretend with our kids 🤔
— Marisa “no, I won’t do the voices” Iallonardo, Staff Writer
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The latest in parenting news, tips, and trends:
The real benefits of playing outside — and the parent-approved products to make it happen. Effects include: Better sleep and less crankiness. Say less.
This mom’s spot-on take about kids' play spaces. +1 to the coffee idea, too.
How planning a playdate now feels worse than asking someone out. These cards could help make it easier (especially for introverts) — they’re clever, with a side of “is this what we’re doing now?”
Why one speech pathologist says you should stop quizzing toddlers during playtime — and try this instead.
Virginia's impending social-media limit. One hour per day. Cute. Now, where’s the law that’ll make kids listen?
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The Case for Letting Them Go a Little Wild
Raise your hand if you’ve also called out, “Be careful!” mid-slide. You’re not alone — but current research says letting kids take (some) risks might be exactly what they need:
Here’s what you need to know:
Risky doesn't mean reckless. Researchers define “risky play” as thrilling, slightly unpredictable, and yes, a little scary — but it’s not the same as dangerous (think tree climbing vs. unsupervised pool time).
It’s good for their brains and their bodies. Kids who engage in risky play may develop better coordination, judgment, empathy, and resilience. It’s not just fun — it’s formative.
Overprotection has a downside. Helicoptering too hard can keep kids from learning how to manage fear, solve problems, or assess their own limits.
A parenting gut check: If your kid looks focused and in control — not frantic or frozen — they’re probably doing risky play right.
The takeaway: You don’t have to love watching them scale the climbing wall. But a little calculated risk might build more than just confidence — it can build life skills.
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